So my girls always call adults, "big person" or "big persons." Well John and I had a little weekend get-away just for us two "big persons." Main thoughts: we need to do something like this more often. (The last time was on our honeymoon 8 years ago!) Also, I am such a sucker for my kids. I missed them SO MUCH! It was painful relishing every minute of "just us" time, while at the same time missing them like crazy!
My mom came down to visit us in September, and we took the opportunity to drive five hours to beautiful San Diego. It was nice to know that they were loving every minute of their special time with Grandma.
I was also so glad that we went when we did because a whole three days after we came back I started feeling the effects of this pregnancy in a major way. This has been by far my hardest pregnancy. I feel so blessed that I was still able to enjoy myself on this trip without the constant nausea and fatigue.
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Whew, my husband is smokin' hot! |
Our first stop was La Jolla Cove Beach. It was notable because of all the wildlife that lives there. Although, I would be kind of freaked out snorkeling right next to a sea lion (or is it a seal?).
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I was too spoiled by swimming all summer in nice warm water in Phoenix to want to venture too far into the cold ocean. This is about as far as I got. |
The ocean is so mesmerizing. We spent a lot of time on various beaches. This was the first time we had visited the ocean together, so we thoroughly enjoyed relaxing on the beach. We loved watching the waves and trying to guess which ones would crash against the rocks in the most splashy way.
As much as we missed the kids, it was almost thrilling to be able to spend as much or as little time as we wanted at any particular place. We were totally on our own schedule. So. Nice.
Visiting the beach is awesome. It is so fun, relaxing, and it was totally free, which is nice when you are trying to stick to a pretty limited budget! We wanted to save the bigger ticket attractions (the zoo and Sea World) for when we were with the kiddos.
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Waves are cool and a little scary sometimes! |
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Oh man, I love this guy! |
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Here comes a wave... |
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Ah...that's cold! |
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We watched the sunset from a pizza restaurant near La Jolla Cove Beach. |
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After we had to try this gelato place. It is the top rated restaurant in the San Diego area on trip adviser. So it was phenomenal. And pricey. I can see why they would charge that much though because it really was that good. |
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The next day we spent a good chunk of the day at the USS Midway. Wow! This was such a perfect activity for us. The kids really would have hated every minute of it, but the big persons loved it! |
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I love learning about history, and this aircraft carrier-turned-museum was a virtual treasure trove of insights into the cold war. Everything was so interesting. |
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This ship is massive. Seriously huge. They have two of these huge elevators that lift the airplanes from the main cargo hold onto the top when planes take off and land. |
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That is a big boat. It is amazing to me that ships this size even float! |
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Because it was just the two of us we could spend as much time as we wanted there. It was so great to listen to the audio tour as we went around learning the history of this ship. |
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It was so neat to see the day-to-day living on the ship. Kitchen, laundry, entertainment, planning rooms, navigation, radio room, engines, food storage, etc. It really was like a floating city. |
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Here is the engineer in the engine room. I think he might need some more specialized training before he could handle the ins and outs of this engine. :) |
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It was so cool to go up on top and learn about the reality of landing and taking off on this ship. They had these docents that actually used to be soldiers on the Midway explain the mechanics of landing. Wow, let's just say I am glad I don't have that job. Talk about scary. We listened this one man talk about when he enlisted they showed him a picture of what a pilot sees coming in to land. Perfectly blue sky, no waves. He said the reality was that often it was stormy and pitch black so that you would have to rely completely on the instrumentation to give you the information needed to land. |
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I liked learning about the hydraulic system that held the cables that stops the landing plane. It was altered for every landing depending on the weight of the plane. |
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Each landing was filmed that was then replayed and critiqued in front of the pilot's squad. Apparently there was a lot bets placed on who would do the best job. |
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At the steering wheel. |
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The navigation room. Clearly I really enjoyed learning about all of this. I could go on and on.
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We thought it was crazy to see this large ship depart. I can't believe it could really fit under that bridge, but I watched it happen. |
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Later we went to Point Loma and visited Cabrillo National Monument. It is known for its tide pools and all of the cool specimens you can see in them. We went at the wrong time for this, but still really enjoyed ourselves seeing the beautiful scenery. |
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Such cool rock formations. |
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The historic lighthouse. |
After the Midway and the lighthouse we went to Sunset Cliffs Beach. There was a rope that we had to lower ourselves down on to get to the sand. This ended up being a problem because when we went to leave the rope was gone. Apparently someone just brought it and took it when he/she left.
Fortunately we were able to scale the cliff safely, although it did make me nervous that either we would both fall and be seriously injured or at least I would fall and cause a miscarriage. Thankfully, neither happened. Although we felt a bit irresponsible.
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Beautiful beach at Sunset Cliffs. |
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Romantic sunset on the beach. |
Our last day we visited this long pier. We saw three dolphins swimming out at the end of it. There were also a lot of fishermen and a couple of sea lions. I am guessing that there were a lot of fish around to attract that kind of wildlife. It was also a fun place to watch the surfers. Surfing looks hard. We would try to guess which wave would be the best for the surfers and watch which surfers would try to catch it.
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The long pier! |
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Our last yummy meal was at Point Loma Seafood. So. Good. It is right on the bay, and that fish was amazing!!! Seafood can be really really delicious if sufficiently fresh. |
Our last stop was Torrey Pines Natural Reserve. This might have been our favorite beach. We wish we could have spent more time there hiking. It was this big, long beach with the softest sand, dramatically backed by these stunning cliffs.
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Torrey Pines Natural Reserve! |
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All of these cool shells are alive! |
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I loved the colors in the sand. |
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Torrey Pines was a great place to walk along the beach and find sea shells! |
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Of course we had to stay and play in that soft sand. John also went swimming in the ocean. It was still too cold for me. |
I am so, so grateful that I had this chance to recharge and reconnect with my sweet husband. He really is so amazing! I feel so lucky to be married to my best friend! He is so fun, hard working, smart, loyal, spiritual, handsome, and loving. Hopefully he never clues in that he is by far the better half of this partnership! I love you John!
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K + J |